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About the March 8 International Women's Day and Women's Issues and Solutions in Turkey
04/03/2020 About the
March 8 International Women's Day and Women's Issues and Solutions in Turkey March 8,
International Women's Day approaching, women's employment in Turkey, a stunning
family and provider awareness and research about private life I wanted to share
with you. In this article, we will try to reach the answers of the following
questions: 1. Are
housework shared? 2. Who
should bring the money home? 3. Is
equality between men and women a dream or a reality? 4. What are
the dimensions of physical violence? 5. Who is
most violent? 6. Who is
most violent? 7. What are
the dimensions of psychological violence? 8. What does
research on digital violence say? 9. Do women
know how to prevent psychological violence and where to get help in such a
situation? 10. Should
the number of women in business change? 11. What are
the biggest problems of women in business life? 12. And
other surprise issues… The NG
Research company conducted a public opinion survey on women, men and society.
Research in Turkey, over the age of 18, from different socio-economic groups with
the participation of 2257 people was conducted online research platform on my
www.benderimki.co. The results
of the research, which shed light on important issues about our society,
continue in the article… Are
housework shared? Traditionally,
household chores are seen as female. But how has the increased educational
opportunities of women and their more involvement in business life changed the
traditional responsibility of housework? 71% of the
participants think that responsibility for housework should be shared. 27%
stated that the responsibility belongs to women, while the rate of those who
state that men are responsible is only 2%. Who should
bring the money home? We have seen
that a generalization in the subconsciousness about the responsibility of
housework is slowly changing on the society. Our traditional family structure
in our country brings the father to the fore as people who make money and the
mother is interested in housework. So, is there any change in who is
responsible for making money? While 65% of
the participants state that making money should be a joint responsibility, 35%
state that this responsibility belongs to the man. When we look deeply at the
subject, 75% of the participants between the ages of 18-24 indicate that
earning money should be a common responsibility, and indicates that this
approach will change further in the coming years. The new generation believes
that life is common more than anyone. Is the
equality between men and women a dream or a reality? Gender
equality is one of the issues that has come to the fore more recently. Our
country is among the first countries to provide women with the right to vote.
But when we look at our daily life, is equality talking or does it really
exist? As per article 10 of the constitution in our country, women and men have
equal rights before the law. But the opinions of the participants in daily life
are a little different. While 8 out
of every 10 people participating in the study think that there is no gender
equality in our country, 2 think that they are equal. When we look at the
answers of only female participants, the ratio of those who think that there is
no equality is 9 out of every 10 people. What are the
dimensions of physical violence? One of the
saddest incidents that frequently appear on the agenda is physical violence
that a spouse or lover applies to a woman and can lead to murder. How many
women remain silent about violence until they reach this stage? How many of us
have experienced such events? Research sheds light on these questions. 1 out of
every 5 women participating in the research said that she was subjected to
physical violence at least once in her life by her husband or lover. The
proportion of men is about 1 in 3 of women. When we ask
the participants who are exposed to physical violence to briefly explain their
situation, we see that the most common physical violence is slapping. The
frequent use of the word “and” also indicates that it has been subjected to
violence in more than one way. In addition, when we look at the whole research,
we see that physical violence and psychological violence are practiced quite
frequently. Approximately
4 out of 10 people exposed to physical violence do not tell this to anyone. Approximately
4 out of 10 people share this situation with their 1st degree relatives such as
their mother, father and brother. Close friends are the most shared after the
family. 1 in 3 people share this situation with their close friends. Do you know
what those who are exposed to physical violence can do to prevent this and
where they can get support? He stated that he knew about 3 out of every 4
people who participated in the research. This rate is slightly higher in women
than in men. On the other hand, the proportion of those who have this information
is slightly lower in people who have been subjected to physical violence than
non-violent people. What is the
level of psychological violence? Generally,
psychological violence occurs with events such as shouting, swearing, making
the person feel inadequate, and trying to humiliate them. It is among the types
of psychological violence to damage the things that the person likes and
prevent the person from doing what they want. In particular, the most common
situation is to constantly compare the person with others. Psychological
violence is a form of violence that is difficult to notice and makes one feel
guilty, insecure and helpless. People who have been exposed to psychological
violence for a long time may develop situations that have long-lasting effects
such as stress disorder, addiction and depression. According to the results of
the research, psychological violence, which endangers the mental health of
people, is applied more than physical violence. 1 in 3
people stated that they were exposed to psychological violence at least once in
their lives. The proportion of women who state that they are experiencing
psychological violence is twice the number of men. Another
point that the research reveals is that people cannot define psychological
violence in their daily lives. 10% of those who are subjected to psychological
violence are not fully aware that they are living because they cannot define it. The most
common situation among people experiencing psychological violence is that they
do not share this issue with anyone. While 4 out of 10 people who experience
psychological violence do not mention this to anyone, approximately 4 people
share it with their close friends. Approximately 1 in 3 people tell the
situation to their family. Communicating the issue to government agencies (such
as police, judiciary) is seen in 1 out of every 25 people, and forwarding to
non-governmental organizations is seen in 1 out of every 100 people. Six out of
10 people do not know how to prevent psychological violence and where to get
help in such a situation. Although we are exposed to more psychological
violence than physical violence, it seems that we have less information about
what solution can be found and what can be done. Are you
violent? When we say
whether you have been subjected to violence or not, you have a different
picture. While 20% of
women state that they have experienced physical violence from their spouse or
lover at least once in their lives, the proportion of men who state that they
have committed physical violence is only 9%. While 6% of
men state that they have experienced physical violence from their spouse or
lover at least once in their lives, the rate of women who stated that they have
committed physical violence is 8%. When we look
at your spouse or lover for psychological violence, you come across an
interesting picture. While 43% of women state that they have experienced
psychological violence at least once in their lives, the proportion of men who
state that they have committed psychological violence is only 16%. While 22% of
men stated that they experienced psychological violence at least once in their
life from their spouse or lover, the proportion of women who stated that they
used psychological violence was 16%. Should the
number of women in business change? Nowadays,
women's educational opportunities have increased compared to the past and the
social structure has also increased the number and proportion of women in
business life. So, is the proportion of women participating in business life
considered sufficient at this point? 3 out of
every 4 people think that more women should participate in business life. 1 in
10 people think that the number of women participating in business should
decrease. What are the
biggest problems of women in business life? Business
life has many difficulties for everyone. But some women face more problems. According to
9 out of every 20 people, the biggest difficulty women face in business life is
the responsibility of housework as well as the pace in the workplace. Approximately
4 out of every 20 people stated that it is the second most important problem
for women to be exposed to physical abuse in business life. The problem in the
3rd place was that 2 out of every 20 people stated that they experienced more
psychological violence than men. Both men and women agree on the ranking of
these problems. See you in the beautiful days where our women and men will be happy in every sense… |
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