AND HOW SHOULD IT BE FOLLOWED?

According to research, half of marriages end within the first 7 years. Divorce is sometimes caused by emotional separations, while sometimes it causes financial or moral problems. With all this, what kind of decisions should be made before and after the decision of #divorce, what kind of path should be followed?

Prof. Dr. Ekrem Çulfa explains what needs to be done before and after the divorce decision...

"CHILDREN CAN GET INVOLVED AND ANGRY"

Stating that the children of married couples before the divorce decision, Prof. Dr. #EkremÇulfa said that such behaviors are more likely to be seen, especially in #children at an early age, than in older children.

Stating that he thinks that any behavior that the child has done before may cause divorce, Çulfa also underlined that he can blame any parent for the divorce decision and be angry with him.

"DIVOCATION DECISION MUST BE HEARD FROM PARENTS FIRST"

Prof. Dr. Ekrem Çulfa said that the child should definitely hear about the divorce decision from his parents and stated that if necessary, the help of a #psychologist or #pedagogue can be sought. Emphasizing the importance of making a statement according to the age of the child, Çulfa explained that the love of the parents for him will not change after the divorce process, and that it is absolutely necessary to explain that he can see his mother or father on certain days. Stating that there may be great changes in the life of the child in the short term after the divorce process, Çulfa underlined that making the child feel safe is of great importance for the child.

"THE FIRST YEAR OF DIVORCE IS DIFFICULT FOR ADULTS, NOT FOR CHILDREN"

Stating that as a result of the researches, two-thirds of the women and one-third of the men had significant psychological problems after the divorce, Çulfa said that it would be easier to overcome these problems with Psychological Assistance. Stating that an unwanted or harsh divorce can throw back the personality of adults and there may be a role change between their children, Çulfa emphasized the importance that children may even have to look after their parents, and that they may become dependent on others in the future, and that certain mental disorders may occur in children due to this distorted development. he drew. (For example, #anger outbursts, #anxiety disorders, difficulties in relationships with academic and peer group) #Prof, who also emphasized that my individuals may isolate themselves from people or try to maintain their social lives in an extraordinary way after separation or divorce. #Dr. Ekrem Çulfa also said that by denying the mental problems that these individuals have after the divorce, they may think that they adapt to everything and lead a good life. He stated that the tricks of overcoming these problems are to make explanations permanent and to keep the current order stable. You can reach Mylife Psychology on +90544 724 3650 on the #Separation and #Divorce Line.